I belong to a generation that grew up much before we started hearing new age terms such as millennials and GenZ! Yet, much before women power, equality of gender, save the girl child started becoming fads, I was the flag bearer of feminism. 

My mother, a professional singer, managed her singing career without neglecting her household responsibilities and even if I was not capable of helping her, my mind was always there with her. And much before helping wife with household work became fashionable, I never left my wife toiling alone in kitchen or elsewhere and I watching TV or reading book or newspaper. I was there right by her side helping her. And my daughter always had freedom to exercise her choice – whether it was the field of study or, profession or life partner! 

Naturally, when we write about a woman behind a successful man, women bosses, women subordinates, women in all fields etc , they sound cliche! Anything that describes woman differently from man, even if it’s a eulogy, it’s discriminatory to my mind! 

This international women’s day, let’s ensure that a woman is just one amongst us, requiring no celebration, eulogy, tribute etc. on gender basis. 

When the strife seems to have taken the entire world into its grip, the flavour and the mood of Holi, the festival of colour, joy and brotherhood certainly dampens. Under the circumstances, burning of Holika assumes more significance as we wish the evils such as wars, causing tremendous human suffering should perish in fire along with Holika! Let’s hope that good sense prevails on those calling shots and the entire mankind, so that we can enjoy life on this beautiful planet called earth.

Live and let others live on this beautiful planet,

By partaking all the Mother Nature has given to all of us;

Instead of killing others to satisfy our elephantine egos ,

And acquiring a better than others superior status.

Festivals like Holi teach us the spirit of brotherhood,

A much needed virtue in today’s fragmented world;

So that joy, happiness and prosperity prevail all over,

And the flag symbolising peace can be unfurled!

Happy Holi.

I have read about the folklore concerning the phoenix, a legendary immortal bird that cyclically regenerates or is otherwise born again. Associated with the Sun, a phoenix obtains new life by rising from the ashes of its predecessor. Some legends say it dies in a show of flames and combustion, while others say that it simply burns to death and decomposes before being born again. This is the origin of the popular phrase “ Phoenix has arisen from ashes .”

However, my friend shared interesting information regarding the Phoenix number, 1/7, a number that refuses to die or get destructed. When we divide 1 by 7 we get an answer in which six digits get repeated endlessly- 0.142857142857……….. That’s not all if you divide 142857 by numbers 2,3,4 5 or 6, the answer is same six digits in a cyclical order as shown below:

142857X2 = 285714

142857X3 = 428571

142857X4 = 571428

142857X5 = 714285

142857X6 = 857142

No matter what we do, the number refuses to die, with the same digits changing places in a cyclical order. However, when we multiply this number by 7, the number that created it, the cycle ends as the result is 999999. It’s destroyed by the very number that created it!

The mystery, however, doesn’t end here, as shown below:

142 + 857 = 999

14+28+57 = 99

1+4+2+8+5+7= 27 = 9

The magic is not yet over. Let’s multiply 142857 by 8 and 9 and see what happens

142857X8 = 1142856

If we add the leading digit, 142857 is reborn.

142856+1 = 142857

142857X9 = 1285713

285713+1 = 285714

And this repeats endlessly!

142857 – born from 7, destroyed by 7 and reborn from the ashes. Phoenix number that never dies.

Over the years, like everything else, Valentine’s Day has evolved from being purely a romantic occasion celebrated by lovers to an occasion to celebrate anyone appreciated. Accordingly, we celebrate our mother’s affection, our father’s protection , our sibling’s care, our best friend’s company and our admired idol this day, apart from our beloved. 

Extending the above logic  further, this Valentine’s Day, I would love to give a rose to the following:

(1) our beloved tobacco and pan chewers, who are determined to fail the national initiative of “Swachch Bharat”;

(2) neighbourhood dog owner who’s unable to control his big dog on leash from attacking by passers and who refuses to clean the dog’s poop from pedestrian pathways;

(3) overzealous road hog, who has scant regard for traffic rules but actually stares at you when you are not heeding to his relentless honking as the light is still red;

(4) enthusiastic social media denizen, who has all the time in the world to prescribe sure shot remedy for anything and everything in the world and has a view on all national global matters; and 

(5) more loyal than others senior, who uses abusive language and makes the life of his team members miserable by his acts! 

And advantage of celebrating Valentine’s Day with the above lot is that no secluded nook is required and one doesn’t run the risk of facing the wrath of self styled protectors of our culture and heritage! 

Happy Valentine’s Day to all my readers and friends.

We are generally advised by wisemen- spiritual gurus, teachers, coaches, orators etc – to live in the present moment as we have no control over the past or the future. While dreaming about good things happening in future is still alright, carrying the baggage of the past can ruin our present. 

However, a friend shared the following beautiful lines by Robert Drake that show our nostalgia or yearning for the past in a completely different light. The lines read:

*Sometimes,*
I feel I want to go back in time… 
_Not to change Things_, but to feel a couple of things twice..

*Sometimes,*
I wish I was a Baby for a while… 
_Not to be walked in the pram_ but to see my Mother’s smile

*Sometimes,*
I wish I could go back to school… 
_Not to become a Child_ but to spend more time with those friends, I never met after school..

*Sometimes,*
I wish I could be back in college… 
_Not to be a Rebel_ but to really understand what I studied

*Sometimes,*
I wish I was a Fresher at my work… 
_Not to do less Work_ but to recall the joy of the first pay cheque.

*Sometimes,*
I wish my kids were younger…. 
_Not because they grew Fast_ but to play with them a bit more.

*Sometimes,*
I feel I still had some more time to live… 
_Not to have a longer Life_ but to know what I could give to others.

Such yearning or nostalgia neither crushes us with burden nor drowns us in any repentance or regret. It actually alerts us about the remaining moments of our life to be savoured with full zest, so that when the present or the future becomes the past, we have nothing to reflect upon. 

A thought just struck my mind that why good things and habits are so difficult to follow and if these are indeed so difficult then how can they be good? 

Daily exercising as against lazing around, eating healthy ( read insipid) food as against lip snacking delicacies, eating fruits ( read monotonous) as against mouth watering desserts, sleeping and getting up early as against late night TV watching and waking up in late hours after sun is out, reading saucy and gossipy stuff against high intellectual stuff, trying natural remedies as against swallowing a tablet for immediate relief, living in present instead of rueing the past and worrying about the future ….. and the list can go on on, are not easy but requiring quite an effort and resolve. 

A while ago, I came across a post, ostensibly by a nonagenarian Japanese that became viral on social media, as it was the antithesis of what all I have listed above as good things or habits. The aforesaid proponent reportedly was living a happy and healthy life without necessarily following the usually recommended doable. 

I think truth lies somewhere in between. Life ought to be a mix of discipline and occasional indulgence. Out of 24 hours, it is not impossible to take some time out for light exercises or yoga, meditation and a brief thanksgiving prayer. An occasional late night binging with some entertainment is alright once in a while, say on weekends. An odd rasgulla or a piece of barfi will not kill us but rather satisfy our craving. And reading is a good habit, irrespective of the kind of stuff we read! 

This, if read in tandem with my previous blog on New Year’s resolution, can help us live a healthy, happy and above all, guilt free life. 

There’s so much around making New Year’s resolutions that largely get broken during the course of the year. While a few get broken at the very start, most of them are consigned to ashes before the year ends. 

I have been a regular proponent of this practice – making resolutions at the start of the year and noting them down diligently for meticulous compliance. I also try and review their progress. My experience of this much discussed new year related issue is:

(1) There’s no harm in making a resolution- after all, resolutions are aimed at improving lifestyle. Even if the failure rate is 100%, the satisfaction of having tried at least will be there. As goes a very famous Urdu couplet-

Girte hain shahsawar hi maidan-e-jung mein Woh tifl kya gire jo ghutno ke bal chale

(2) Tensions and worries overwhelm us throughout the year. At least, we think beyond them on the eve of new year and this is a much welcomed diversion! 

(3) Even if we tried to overcome a weakness or step into new shoes for a while, it calls for celebration rather than regret or disappointment. 

(4) By renewing the new year resolutions, I remain concerned about the things I want to get rid of that could otherwise form part of my resigned persona.

So folks, don’t worry and indulge in this exciting activity called “ New Year’s resolutions”.  Whatever clicks is our gain and there’s nothing to lose.

I will exercise daily and eat no junk food,

Minimise use of phone have I decided this new year;

May not be able to exercise daily or avoid junk food altogether,

And lesser use of phone will still make it a happier year! 

It’s a ritual – bidding adieu to the passing year and welcoming the new year, with new hope and expectation that it would be better than the one just gone by! For some the year gone by could have been filled with unprecedented hardships and difficulties and for others full of achievement and happiness. Yet both the above sets expect a better new year.

Another ritual that has become very popular is making resolutions – mainly aimed at overcoming bad habits and inculcating good and healthy practices. 

However, it’s true that our immediate or more recent memories overwhelm us and in that sense the memories of 2025 are indeed overwhelming, especially the unsavoury ones. Tariffs imposed by US, change in rules of employment and immigration by US, carnage at Pahalgam, operation Sindoor and changing geopolitical scenario in its aftermath, unrest in Nepal and Bangladesh, fury of nature in different parts of the world, Israel – Iran, Pakistan- Afghanistan and Thailand- Cambodia strifes and the seemingly unending Russia-Ukraine and Israel vs several wars and towards the end Indigo fiasco exposing the dangers of monopoly or duo-poly make 2025 an eminently forgettable year, notwithstanding a few bright spots here and there – India’s new feat in space, good domestic market due to GST revision, ceasefire of Indo-Pak and Israel-Hamas wars readily come to mind. Towards the fag end, Bollywood witnessed a revival in the form of unprecedented success of Dhurandhar.

Let’s hope 2026 brings lasting peace, happiness, good health and prosperity for all of us and our beloved nation. We can afford to pass resolutions and infringe upon them – but when it comes to nicety, amiability, cooperation, camaraderie towards fellow humans, let there be no infringement.

A new year follows the one that goes by

For change is the name of the game 

Our good deeds, behaviour and acts

Are the catalysts that immortalise our name.

A very happy 2026 to all! 

28/12/1983 would always be a very special day in my life as on that day my life took a big transformation by haphazardly ending my student life and making me a professional. Just a few days prior to the aforesaid date, I was going to university as a student of MSc physics. I was enjoying my Christmas break when this job offer came, requiring me to join at once.

The above was followed by 39 years of professional life without any break ending with my superannuation on 31/05/2022.

I was happy to have retired to have all the time in the world to pursue all that I missed during the four decades of pursuit for better life and nearly three and the half years into relaxed life, the heart is eager to start all that again, albeit with some restraint. This is the biggest dichotomy of life – chasing what eludes us! Message for the youngsters – do your best and extract the most in your active years. When relieved of all that you are doing today, you will miss it!

in my life as on that day my life took a big transformation by haphazardly ending my student life and making me a professional. Just a few days prior to the aforesaid date, I was going to university as a student of MSc physics. I was enjoying my Christmas break when this job offer came, requiring me to join at once.

The above was followed by 39 years of professional life without any break ending with my superannuation on 31/05/2022.

I was happy to have retired to have all the time in the world to pursue all that I missed during the four decades of pursuit for better life and nearly three and the half years into relaxed life, the heart is eager to start all that again, albeit with some restraint. This is the biggest dichotomy of life – chasing what eludes us! Message for the youngsters – do your best and extract the most in your active years. When relieved of all that you are doing today, you will miss it!

Children wait for Santa to fill their socks,

That they attach to their Christmas tree;

With gifts and goodies that they yearn for,

For who else gives everything without any conditions for free! 

Let’s also become children at least for a day,

Lighten our hearts laden with happiness;

Let’s tie our socks to the tree of our  imagination ,

Hoping it will be filled with peace, optimism and happiness! 

Merry Christmas!